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I Love Anal Sex

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It might be weird but when it comes to my favourite sexual activity it has to be anal without a doubt. Anything to do with anal gives me pleasure and makes me orgasm so hard. From penetration to rimming. There is nothing more pleasurable than a moist tongue against my arsehole. Some people ask me is anal sex more pleasurable than vaginal sex and the answer is definitely yes and yes again 50 times over. The positions for anal sex are more or less the same as vaginal sex however anal sex just hits that g spot that vaginal sex cant seem to reach for me.

Anal sex is becoming increasingly popular throughout the world, escorts in London are really enjoying it now, but sadly, it is still not as accepted by society as other forms of intercourse. As a result of this, people feel as though they should not be talking about it and most importantly, that they should not ask questions about it. Although this makes sense because people are made to feel uncomfortable and ashamed of the desire to have anal sex, it leads to many complications because they do not have the information about the proper precautions to take.

In this article I’m going to talk about the power of anal sex to help us let go of anger, be free from frustration and heal old wounds in general. Remember, what works for your friend may not work for you, so no one can tell you which one will blend the best with your body. The only way for you to find this out is good old trial and error, but you will be happy that you did this when you find the perfect one.

Have you ever wondered about the power of our sex lives to help us overcome emotional baggage and other issues?

We all know that sex is powerful. And we’ve all (at least I hope) experienced times when we’ve had sex that helped us overcome or deal with some major issue we were struggling with. Heathrow escorts love role-plays to escape the rig morals of daily life and escape into a fantasy life.

Anal sex has its own special healing and transforming power. Part of the reason for this is the way the body stores emotion and emotional baggage. All memory is stored throughout the body. Trauma, pain, etc, and all negative emotions are stored in the body as tension. If you release the tension, the negative emotion or pain goes away as well.

Obviously a lot of negative crap gets stored in the ass. Having anal sex is a great way to massage out that tension and get rid of all that emotional baggage, whatever it is.

Ever had a gnarly knot or cramp in your neck or maybe high in your back around your shoulder blades? I have. Did you go to a masseuse and maybe have it worked out? The whole reason it hurt was simply tension. When you relax that muscle, let go of the tension that pain or discomfort is gone. And that was the masseuse helped you to do.

When she puts pressure on that gnarly spot that was causing you pain, in that moment you can’t focus on anything else in the world but the pressure on that spot. That focus kind of causes you to let go of everything else at least for that moment. You become very present. And that pressure, kneading and massaging it forces the muscle to relax.

And here’s an important point to get; when the muscle relaxes you’re not just letting go of that muscle tension, but the issue itself that was causing the tension. So it is with anal sex. We often hold so much tension in our asses. Tension that isn’t just tension, but some issue. Anger maybe, stress, frustration, repression, even sadness or you name it.

And just like the masseuse on your neck or back, with someone caressing, massaging, and pressing into and penetrating your ass, you can let go of anything else but that moment, that experience and sensation. And as you relax, as you let go and open up your ass to more and more pressure and penetration, at the same time you’re letting go of whatever emotions and issues you were holding onto.
Many people are intrigued by the thought of anal sex, so there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be properly educated on the subject. Anal sex has been a desired thing for a long time because the anus and rectum areas are extremely sensitive parts of the body. There are so many different muscles and nerve endings that surround the anus, so when touched correctly it can feel amazing. Men have prostate glands that can be reached through the anus which can be very stimulating. Also, a womans G spot can be touched and stimulated through anal play so it is a very enjoyable activity for men and women.

If you are thinking about having anal sex for the first time with your partner, it is a great idea to explore the area by yourself first. All it takes is some sex lube and your hand to engage in some anal masturbation that can completely change the way you approach anal sex with your partner. In the end, no matter what approach you and your partner decide to take, always remember to use sex lube for your anal sex experience.
And so, anal sex, anal play and penetration can be a wildy pleasurable and powerful way to let go, to relax and to heal. I’ve only scratched the surface here, there’s a lot more to say, so expect follow up articles to this.I hope you got something of pleasure, value and maybe something unexpected from this post. Please leave any comments or questions. I’m always happy to get them at anal-sex-secrets!

There are many dangers of anal sex. One of the more embarrassing one being the the anal wall or sphincter become weak and sometime a little faeces may come out involuntarily. Now that can happen and you feel like shit (excuse the pun, it was intended) however for me the joys of anal sexier outweighs any embarrassing moment that i may feel.

She Only Orgasms When I Give Her Oral.

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Over the years since I first became sexually active (in my late teens), I have always thought and believed that any sex technique has the ability to lead someone to an orgasm: oral sex, penile-vaginal sex, sex toys…every sex technique out there. For me at least, this has always turned out to be true. However, this does not seem to hold true when it comes to this new hot girl from London escorts that I am seeing. She is twenty nine and I am a male aged thirty four. Before we started seeing each other, we were both sexually active and we had had sexual experiences with our past partners. She is everything I need and want in a woman. Moreover, we are totally compatible in bed but there is a very big issue on our sexual encounters that is really bothering me. And this issue is that no matter how much my D game is, she only orgasms when I give her oral. This is so frustrating to me because first of all, I am not the biggest fan of oral sex out there. Nothing else that I try to use to help make her climax seems to do the trick, but the minute I put my mouth in her lady parts and starts pleasuring her with my mouth, she does not last for even three minutes before an earth-shattering orgasm rocks her entire body.

Does this mean that I am possibly doing the whole love making thing the wrong way? Apart from when giving oral sex? No matter how much I would like to believe that I am not doing anything wrong, or underdoing anything, I just cannot help but think that I am not pleasuring her enough in all the other fields. Well, at least to the point of orgasm that is. What makes it so frustrating is that of all my past partners, this is the one that I feel most connected to. We are like two long souls who have finally met each other. The only thing straining our relationship is that we both have very different paths that lead us to orgasm. Full-on penetration for me, and oral sex on her side. I just wish that she is as adaptable as I am. You see, like I have stated above, I can get off petty much easily through any sex technique, though I have an affinity for full-on penetration. She, on the other side, can only orgasm when given oral.

From the first time since we got intimate until now, I have never forced her to do anything in bet that she does not want to. We have been through quite a lot and we do not keep secrets away from each other. Since I first noted that only oral can give her release, I have been trying to broach this subject to her unsuccessfully, just until recently when she noticed my increased frustrations. I decided to come clean and told her what was making me so angry and irritable. Although she tried to convince me that it is not my fault, but rather how her anatomy operates, I am still not convinced. Could it be that my manhood is too small? Too big? Could it be that I am too dominating in bed, not giving her a chance to express her likes and dislikes? Or am I too impatient, always jumping on her before her body fully responds and her womanhood comfortably lubricates? The truth be told, I am not guilty of any of this. I have been told by a good number of my past sexual partners that my manhood is just right. When it comes to patience, I have on more than enough times let her take the lead in bed, only doing what she commands me to do at her own right time. But has this served to help? A big no!

It is for reasons like this that we recently decided to visit a sex advice expert from escorts in London in our town. These are some of the things she suggested we do in order to make my woman orgasm through other sex forms apart from oral sex.

The use of sex toys.

The said sex advice expert told us that unlike men who instantly respond and react to sexual stimuli, women take longer. As such, men tend to climax faster than women do. She also told us that it is not uncommon for women to start responding to sex stimuli when the man is on the verge of climaxing, leaving her when her body has just started responding. This, according to her, is why most women do not orgasm during vaginal sex. She advised us to try sex toys such as dildos and vibrators to prepare her and make her fully aroused before sex. We have been using toys for over two months and guess what? Nothing. Another big frustration.

Role Play.

According to the expert, assuming different roles in bed is a sure way of guaranteeing orgasm, regardless of the type of sex you engage in. She advised me to let her be the dominant partner and I the submissive partner for a while and see how things were going to out for us. No matter how many times we do it, it just does not help. Though there was this time she had almost been “there”. It really puts a dent on my male pride that the only way I can make my woman orgasm is through oral sex.

Not to pressure her.

Just like my girlfriend, the expert insisted that “the end justifies the means”. She told me that I should be happy and contented that my girl is among the very few women who are lucky enough to orgasm, no matter how she achieves this. As much sense as this makes, I just cannot help but blame myself for failing to make her climax through every other sex technique out there.

 

I know that I am being unfair to myself, and that I am putting a lot of unnecessary pressure on my woman, but I just cannot seem to shake it off. I just wish there was another way to make her climax, because her climaxing only when I give her oral is really frustrating!