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My Girlfriends Loves Me Despite My Porn Habit

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I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years now and even before we got into a relationship we were childhood friends. She and I have shared so much between us that it is unbelievable to even express. The one thing that I have always had a weakness for is porn; and this is something that has been with me for a long time. It is not that I am a total addict to it, but it is something that I like to watch because it helps me out in many ways. Before we went out i was addicted to London escorts and Heathrow escorts.

Some people are addicted to porn only because it helps them to take care of their needs to masturbate. In my case, it is different. Through porn I get to learn how to be a better person in bed. As much as people may think this is a joke, the reality is that it does help me. I look at the various styles and positions of how I can make my girl happy.

There are also times when we both sit down and watch it together. Sometimes I even turn on porn to set in the mood. We have already spoken about it and she is fine provided I do not let it affect our relation. I know the line that I have to draw and I maintain it. The only request she had was that I would never watch child or animal pornography.

Sometimes when she is out with her friends, I have the boys over at our place and we all sit down to enjoy a Porn night. This is our way of having some boy time while she goes out with the girls. Watching XXX videos and movies is not a bad or dirty thing; it just how you respond to the whole thing.

From my experience, whenever I porn it’s not that I am jerking myself off. Neither does it mean that I disrespect her by not giving her time. We have had some of the best nights off our lives thanks to it. In fact, we have even spiced our love life by checking out the different sex toys there are in the market and watching a live demo of how to use it.

The general misconception people have about porn is that it is only for entertainment purposes or helps to release some juice out. No doubt, there are a few that go overboard with it and practically make their world. But this is a reality that we all live in; the difference is that we do not flaunt it out in the open.

If you are fine with one night stands, recording your intimate moments or sleeping with escorts or call girls, the why is it that watching porn is considered a bad thing?

The fact of the matter is that XXX is nothing but just normal people who have chosen a profession that is seen on screen. Yes, I do agree that sometimes the things that are shown on the videos can be gross or even disgusting, but that is just a script or rather an action film where there are no fights, because the action is on bed.

The perspective you have in your mind about something can speak a lot about how you think. When you look at things from a larger picture, it helps you to read between the lines. My girl has always looked at the brighter side of things. In fact we often sit down and even discuss the moments that we enjoyed while watching a porn video.

We all have needs and wants; the physical desire of our body is part of it. If you are in a position to make your partner happy, then you should not leave any stones unturned to move that way. The ability to stay in a relation when you know that your partner is watching porn does not go well with some females.

Butt then when you have a girl who understands that you like to do something and you would rather do it openly is very different. I love the way porn stars are able to carry off what they do. As much as I love to watch XXX videos or movies, I would never have the guts to stand in front of a camera.

Sometimes I even try to act like one of the porn stars (although I suck at it), but we tend to laugh it out when she passes these witty and sarcastic comments. All in all, we have a fun relationship where we are not like two typical lovers but in fact two friends who are in love with each other.

There are even day where she herself will turn a porn video if she is in a mood to watch one. A few days earlier, I was up until late watching a few videos only because she was not well. She turned around and told me that she wished she was a XXX star. When I questioned her why, she told me that at least that way I could be happy to say I was dating a star.

Very honestly, it was the way she said it and the actions that came along with it that made me crack up. She stood with a spatula in her hand and made this funny pout. The pose that she held for a few seconds was so weird that I fell off the chair laughing.

My relationship with my girl may sound unreal for many people; but for those who can relate to it, you know how funny it can be. The mellow drama that a lot of men face pertaining to this habit is way out of question in my life. Sometimes we do have our fights, but there is nothing that carry’s over after we have sorted things out.

For all the guys who love watching adult movies, I can only say that as long as you do not let this control your relationship, you can actually talk to your partner and make her understand. It is only the approach your use and the way you balance your relationship that is important.

I Want To Try BDSM!

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Fifty shades of grey, the first instalment in the fifty shades trilogy, is claimed to be an erotic romance novel. When it came in the market in 2011, there was so much hullabaloo all around. The so much commotion, It had sold 40 million copies worldwide till then and was on New York Times bestseller list, even enticed me to grab a copy of the book from the book store (although only a year later) while I was on my way to home from my office.

After 3 days I was done with the book and so with the list of my questions that were thirsty for the answers. My thought of romance is not that executed between business magnate, Christian Grey and girl next door, Anastasia Steele in this novel. So, the first question that popped up in my head was, How is this a romance novel’? I mean where the love was, Christian would not even let her touch him. And if there was any then it was only one-sided, from Ana to Grey (at least in the first part). This question was immediately followed by another question since I am a practical person, if this is a kind of romance then does this exist in real life? I mean, a tycoon falling for a simple girl like Anastasia, it was hard to digest. And the next question, which came no later and surprised me was, she was a virgin! Last but not the least, a girl who never had sex in her life, how did she agree to go for something as dark thing as BDSM. Didn’t she know it is violent or maybe she was in so much love that she was ready to do anything for him (he turned on by violent sex), even BDSM.

The book had an obvious storyline (only if there was one) – they like each other, they fight then makeup, they engage in a lot of unusual sex, and that’s the end. In fact, the trilogy had more or less very predictable plot as well. Drama, passion followed by love, marriage and kids.

The only thing intriguing was sex- not pretentious and not conventional at all. Also, the character of protagonists was explained beautifully. The attractive and romantic’ Christian Grey with his dark past & secret and the shy yet determined Ana, the author had layered everything about both the characters so smartly and timely. I think this was the thing that made me complete it because the story was actually missing or perhaps BDSM took the central stage, both directly and indirectly. There was so much heavy present of it that it even made me also think once how one feels to be a sexual submissive? Is Bondage Domination Submission and Masochism really fun? But as you know, few answers you only get only from experience!

So, YES! I wanted to try it too. BDSM was a major (and only) brain-boner from the book. I won’t lie by saying that I was not scared but it has happened before where I took challenges and results were fruitful. But before I decided to go ahead with it practically, I thought,how about some theory before practical’! So, I flipped few pages on Google, lo and behold, the internet was happily hosting so many people like me and those, who have lived (or living) the life of this dark, deep fantasy. What intrigued me was the wonderful and sexually intriguing world of London escorts Also, I found out that there are some ethical and healthy ways to blend sex and pain consensually. It’s just that it requires good communication skills, self-knowledge, and emotional maturity as only these can make the sex safe and gratifying.

So, this brought another question in my mind. Is BDSM overrated, as described in the book? Hot and violent sex scenes are all over the pages, but that is not the reality. Or maybe I am wrong in thinking that, perhaps it was violent for Ana but same might not be the case for every person. Moreover, Christian presented her with the contract and she said yes’ despite being not comfortable with it. But why? Was she too shy? Was she afraid of losing him? Or was she thinking what Christian will think of her? So, eventually, she gives her consent to excruciating pain and couldn’t protect herself from being harmed.

Anyway, I was all ready and set for the Grey’s version of kinky and hot sex. I was ready to explore the world of sexual fantasy and I did it.

I and my partner actually did it in the Fifty Shades style. We made the contract, prepared the list and of course, the safe words. It was a mutual decision ultimately to do it and we continued to follow every rule that we had made.

I was consumed by an unquenchable desire just like Anastasia Steele. I was doubtful about my decision though because, despite so much of enjoyment, I believed that what happened was wrong and sick. I am not as determined as Ana and I destine to be a victim. And the worst happened when it went beyond the bedroom.

However, it was something which was initially fragile but ultimately, when we could communicate better, our bond got stronger, we both were left with profoundly intimate and fulfilling relationship.

I used to think I and my partner are very close & we love each other but after this, we got closer. Of course, we loved each other and it only got stronger and we were merrier. It was something new for both of us and perhaps due to this, it felt like a new beginning. We have been together for so many years and we cared for each other, loved each other but yet there was something missing and this unseen-but-felt gap between us was bridged by BDSM. I still believe that my sexual relationship which was unwillingly getting damaged was brought back to life. And most importantly, however submissive I was but sexually I was empowered.

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London Escorts Sexual Tips To make A Woman Orgasm

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My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and she has never had an orgasm. We have tried almost all positions known to man and every other technique we could think of. We even booked a consultation with a sex therapist and gynecologist and her body is just fine and does not have any abnormalities. At some point, this begun to erode my self-esteem and confidence because I would always wonder if I was not man enough for her. She would encourage me and point out that the problem was her and not me. But I still wanted her to enjoy the pleasure of an orgasm and my mind could not rest. It was not that she did not enjoy the sex itself, but that she did not get an orgasm out of it.

There were times when I felt that she was almost there, but the moment eluded her and it was just the same every other time. So how could I make my girlfriend orgasm after trying so hard for so long? That’s when I called London x city escorts and booked a consultation with one of their
escorts. When she arrived for our session, I told her about my troubles and she told me that I had certainly chosen the right place. We talked for a while and she asked me if I would like her to meet my girlfriend or if we should do this without her.

I chose to do it without my girlfriend’s knowledge so that I could surprise her on our 5th anniversary with an orgasm. This would be the ultimate gift to her and I truly believed it would change our relationship and take it to a whole new level. London escorts are well versed in the art of pleasure and satisfaction. She gave me a detailed lesson on the clitoris and G-spot and gave me a few tips on things to do and not to do to make my girlfriend have an orgasm. So I tried each and got astounding results.

Relax:

Do not over try- My escort told me that the best way was for me to begin with a few relaxation techniques. I was to try a massage and use essential oils to soften the mood in a candlelit room. I tried this and my girlfriend had a soft look on her face as I massaged her body and whispered sweet things in her ear. I got to discover the power of touching could be stronger than penetration. Once the anxiety and foreboding were eliminated she was free to truly enjoy the emotions going through her body. This also built up the anticipation of what was to come and I enjoyed it as much as she did.

Get the juices flowing:

One thing London escorts taught me was that sex without lubrication could be painful. I had always been of the mindset that all sex was good. A woman requires more time to become aroused and that would usually take longer for her. The London escorts advised me to give my girlfriend a preview of what would come next but not undress. I did this by caressing her in both gentle and less gentle ways and the reaction I got was great. They also told me to that kissing was an important part of foreplay and that I should alternate between kissing her mouth and her neck to increase pleasure. Once I felt that her juices were flowing I could move on to the next part and undress her slowly; item by item of clothing.

More foreplay: 

Yes. I know it might seem like we are getting there too slow. But the London escorts assured me that slow was the way to go. I stroked her clitoris in the way the London escorts had taught me and had lube tube nearby in case things got dry. This also helped me grind on her clitoris and get her aroused to appoint we had never gotten to before. The London escorts had told me to rub and press on her magic spot in alternating motions. This built up more arousal and desire and her moans let me know I was on the right track.

The orgasm:

I tried all the tips the London escorts gave me and made sure I went slowly and I asked my girlfriend to let me know how it was coming along. Well, suffice to say there were no words to say as she reached her orgasm and clutched on my back like both our lives depended on it. While she reached her orgasm I kept the stimulation going for a few seconds then reduced and increased alternately. It became clear to me that the clitoris was an essential part of reaching an orgasm and I couldn’t have made my girlfriend reach her orgasm without the help of London escorts to
whom I am truly forever grateful.

The London escorts also mentioned that I might want to try a vibrator to increase arousal. I was skeptical about it but had a conversation with my girlfriend about buying her a vibrator and she was on board with that game plan. The London escorts helped me browse online for various vibrators and we tried each one with my girlfriend with very satisfactory results. The vibrators had a different setting for speed and pressure and we experimented with them all. Thanks to London escorts my girlfriend and I have found a new meaning to our relationship and we are always trying new things to spice it up and keep it exciting. We spent our 5th anniversary cooped up in a hotel room exploring the pleasure of orgasms and did not get out until the reality of our jobs awakened us. We still remember our first experience with fondness and naughtiness and go back to that hotel room every year to celebrate London escorts and the happiness they brought into our lives. I wonder what type of sexual tricks Heathrow escorts could teach me lol?

I Love Anal Sex

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It might be weird but when it comes to my favourite sexual activity it has to be anal without a doubt. Anything to do with anal gives me pleasure and makes me orgasm so hard. From penetration to rimming. There is nothing more pleasurable than a moist tongue against my arsehole. Some people ask me is anal sex more pleasurable than vaginal sex and the answer is definitely yes and yes again 50 times over. The positions for anal sex are more or less the same as vaginal sex however anal sex just hits that g spot that vaginal sex cant seem to reach for me.

Anal sex is becoming increasingly popular throughout the world, escorts in London are really enjoying it now, but sadly, it is still not as accepted by society as other forms of intercourse. As a result of this, people feel as though they should not be talking about it and most importantly, that they should not ask questions about it. Although this makes sense because people are made to feel uncomfortable and ashamed of the desire to have anal sex, it leads to many complications because they do not have the information about the proper precautions to take.

In this article I’m going to talk about the power of anal sex to help us let go of anger, be free from frustration and heal old wounds in general. Remember, what works for your friend may not work for you, so no one can tell you which one will blend the best with your body. The only way for you to find this out is good old trial and error, but you will be happy that you did this when you find the perfect one.

Have you ever wondered about the power of our sex lives to help us overcome emotional baggage and other issues?

We all know that sex is powerful. And we’ve all (at least I hope) experienced times when we’ve had sex that helped us overcome or deal with some major issue we were struggling with. Heathrow escorts love role-plays to escape the rig morals of daily life and escape into a fantasy life.

Anal sex has its own special healing and transforming power. Part of the reason for this is the way the body stores emotion and emotional baggage. All memory is stored throughout the body. Trauma, pain, etc, and all negative emotions are stored in the body as tension. If you release the tension, the negative emotion or pain goes away as well.

Obviously a lot of negative crap gets stored in the ass. Having anal sex is a great way to massage out that tension and get rid of all that emotional baggage, whatever it is.

Ever had a gnarly knot or cramp in your neck or maybe high in your back around your shoulder blades? I have. Did you go to a masseuse and maybe have it worked out? The whole reason it hurt was simply tension. When you relax that muscle, let go of the tension that pain or discomfort is gone. And that was the masseuse helped you to do.

When she puts pressure on that gnarly spot that was causing you pain, in that moment you can’t focus on anything else in the world but the pressure on that spot. That focus kind of causes you to let go of everything else at least for that moment. You become very present. And that pressure, kneading and massaging it forces the muscle to relax.

And here’s an important point to get; when the muscle relaxes you’re not just letting go of that muscle tension, but the issue itself that was causing the tension. So it is with anal sex. We often hold so much tension in our asses. Tension that isn’t just tension, but some issue. Anger maybe, stress, frustration, repression, even sadness or you name it.

And just like the masseuse on your neck or back, with someone caressing, massaging, and pressing into and penetrating your ass, you can let go of anything else but that moment, that experience and sensation. And as you relax, as you let go and open up your ass to more and more pressure and penetration, at the same time you’re letting go of whatever emotions and issues you were holding onto.
Many people are intrigued by the thought of anal sex, so there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be properly educated on the subject. Anal sex has been a desired thing for a long time because the anus and rectum areas are extremely sensitive parts of the body. There are so many different muscles and nerve endings that surround the anus, so when touched correctly it can feel amazing. Men have prostate glands that can be reached through the anus which can be very stimulating. Also, a womans G spot can be touched and stimulated through anal play so it is a very enjoyable activity for men and women.

If you are thinking about having anal sex for the first time with your partner, it is a great idea to explore the area by yourself first. All it takes is some sex lube and your hand to engage in some anal masturbation that can completely change the way you approach anal sex with your partner. In the end, no matter what approach you and your partner decide to take, always remember to use sex lube for your anal sex experience.
And so, anal sex, anal play and penetration can be a wildy pleasurable and powerful way to let go, to relax and to heal. I’ve only scratched the surface here, there’s a lot more to say, so expect follow up articles to this.I hope you got something of pleasure, value and maybe something unexpected from this post. Please leave any comments or questions. I’m always happy to get them at anal-sex-secrets!

There are many dangers of anal sex. One of the more embarrassing one being the the anal wall or sphincter become weak and sometime a little faeces may come out involuntarily. Now that can happen and you feel like shit (excuse the pun, it was intended) however for me the joys of anal sexier outweighs any embarrassing moment that i may feel.