My Girlfriends Loves Me Despite My Porn Habit

I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years now and even before we got into a relationship we were childhood friends. She and I have shared so much between us that it is unbelievable to even express. The one thing that I have always had a weakness for is porn; and this is something that has been with me for a long time. It is not that I am a total addict to it, but it is something that I like to watch because it helps me out in many ways. Before we went out i was addicted to London escorts and Heathrow escorts.

Some people are addicted to porn only because it helps them to take care of their needs to masturbate. In my case, it is different. Through porn I get to learn how to be a better person in bed. As much as people may think this is a joke, the reality is that it does help me. I look at the various styles and positions of how I can make my girl happy.

There are also times when we both sit down and watch it together. Sometimes I even turn on porn to set in the mood. We have already spoken about it and she is fine provided I do not let it affect our relation. I know the line that I have to draw and I maintain it. The only request she had was that I would never watch child or animal pornography.

Sometimes when she is out with her friends, I have the boys over at our place and we all sit down to enjoy a Porn night. This is our way of having some boy time while she goes out with the girls. Watching XXX videos and movies is not a bad or dirty thing; it just how you respond to the whole thing.

From my experience, whenever I porn it’s not that I am jerking myself off. Neither does it mean that I disrespect her by not giving her time. We have had some of the best nights off our lives thanks to it. In fact, we have even spiced our love life by checking out the different sex toys there are in the market and watching a live demo of how to use it.

The general misconception people have about porn is that it is only for entertainment purposes or helps to release some juice out. No doubt, there are a few that go overboard with it and practically make their world. But this is a reality that we all live in; the difference is that we do not flaunt it out in the open.

If you are fine with one night stands, recording your intimate moments or sleeping with escorts or call girls, the why is it that watching porn is considered a bad thing?

The fact of the matter is that XXX is nothing but just normal people who have chosen a profession that is seen on screen. Yes, I do agree that sometimes the things that are shown on the videos can be gross or even disgusting, but that is just a script or rather an action film where there are no fights, because the action is on bed.

The perspective you have in your mind about something can speak a lot about how you think. When you look at things from a larger picture, it helps you to read between the lines. My girl has always looked at the brighter side of things. In fact we often sit down and even discuss the moments that we enjoyed while watching a porn video.

We all have needs and wants; the physical desire of our body is part of it. If you are in a position to make your partner happy, then you should not leave any stones unturned to move that way. The ability to stay in a relation when you know that your partner is watching porn does not go well with some females.

Butt then when you have a girl who understands that you like to do something and you would rather do it openly is very different. I love the way porn stars are able to carry off what they do. As much as I love to watch XXX videos or movies, I would never have the guts to stand in front of a camera.

Sometimes I even try to act like one of the porn stars (although I suck at it), but we tend to laugh it out when she passes these witty and sarcastic comments. All in all, we have a fun relationship where we are not like two typical lovers but in fact two friends who are in love with each other.

There are even day where she herself will turn a porn video if she is in a mood to watch one. A few days earlier, I was up until late watching a few videos only because she was not well. She turned around and told me that she wished she was a XXX star. When I questioned her why, she told me that at least that way I could be happy to say I was dating a star.

Very honestly, it was the way she said it and the actions that came along with it that made me crack up. She stood with a spatula in her hand and made this funny pout. The pose that she held for a few seconds was so weird that I fell off the chair laughing.

My relationship with my girl may sound unreal for many people; but for those who can relate to it, you know how funny it can be. The mellow drama that a lot of men face pertaining to this habit is way out of question in my life. Sometimes we do have our fights, but there is nothing that carry’s over after we have sorted things out.

For all the guys who love watching adult movies, I can only say that as long as you do not let this control your relationship, you can actually talk to your partner and make her understand. It is only the approach your use and the way you balance your relationship that is important.

I Want To Try BDSM!

Fifty shades of grey, the first instalment in the fifty shades trilogy, is claimed to be an erotic romance novel. When it came in the market in 2011, there was so much hullabaloo all around. The so much commotion, It had sold 40 million copies worldwide till then and was on New York Times bestseller list, even enticed me to grab a copy of the book from the book store (although only a year later) while I was on my way to home from my office.

After 3 days I was done with the book and so with the list of my questions that were thirsty for the answers. My thought of romance is not that executed between business magnate, Christian Grey and girl next door, Anastasia Steele in this novel. So, the first question that popped up in my head was, How is this a romance novel’? I mean where the love was, Christian would not even let her touch him. And if there was any then it was only one-sided, from Ana to Grey (at least in the first part). This question was immediately followed by another question since I am a practical person, if this is a kind of romance then does this exist in real life? I mean, a tycoon falling for a simple girl like Anastasia, it was hard to digest. And the next question, which came no later and surprised me was, she was a virgin! Last but not the least, a girl who never had sex in her life, how did she agree to go for something as dark thing as BDSM. Didn’t she know it is violent or maybe she was in so much love that she was ready to do anything for him (he turned on by violent sex), even BDSM.

The book had an obvious storyline (only if there was one) – they like each other, they fight then makeup, they engage in a lot of unusual sex, and that’s the end. In fact, the trilogy had more or less very predictable plot as well. Drama, passion followed by love, marriage and kids.

The only thing intriguing was sex- not pretentious and not conventional at all. Also, the character of protagonists was explained beautifully. The attractive and romantic’ Christian Grey with his dark past & secret and the shy yet determined Ana, the author had layered everything about both the characters so smartly and timely. I think this was the thing that made me complete it because the story was actually missing or perhaps BDSM took the central stage, both directly and indirectly. There was so much heavy present of it that it even made me also think once how one feels to be a sexual submissive? Is Bondage Domination Submission and Masochism really fun? But as you know, few answers you only get only from experience!

So, YES! I wanted to try it too. BDSM was a major (and only) brain-boner from the book. I won’t lie by saying that I was not scared but it has happened before where I took challenges and results were fruitful. But before I decided to go ahead with it practically, I thought,how about some theory before practical’! So, I flipped few pages on Google, lo and behold, the internet was happily hosting so many people like me and those, who have lived (or living) the life of this dark, deep fantasy. What intrigued me was the wonderful and sexually intriguing world of London escorts Also, I found out that there are some ethical and healthy ways to blend sex and pain consensually. It’s just that it requires good communication skills, self-knowledge, and emotional maturity as only these can make the sex safe and gratifying.

So, this brought another question in my mind. Is BDSM overrated, as described in the book? Hot and violent sex scenes are all over the pages, but that is not the reality. Or maybe I am wrong in thinking that, perhaps it was violent for Ana but same might not be the case for every person. Moreover, Christian presented her with the contract and she said yes’ despite being not comfortable with it. But why? Was she too shy? Was she afraid of losing him? Or was she thinking what Christian will think of her? So, eventually, she gives her consent to excruciating pain and couldn’t protect herself from being harmed.

Anyway, I was all ready and set for the Grey’s version of kinky and hot sex. I was ready to explore the world of sexual fantasy and I did it.

I and my partner actually did it in the Fifty Shades style. We made the contract, prepared the list and of course, the safe words. It was a mutual decision ultimately to do it and we continued to follow every rule that we had made.

I was consumed by an unquenchable desire just like Anastasia Steele. I was doubtful about my decision though because, despite so much of enjoyment, I believed that what happened was wrong and sick. I am not as determined as Ana and I destine to be a victim. And the worst happened when it went beyond the bedroom.

However, it was something which was initially fragile but ultimately, when we could communicate better, our bond got stronger, we both were left with profoundly intimate and fulfilling relationship.

I used to think I and my partner are very close & we love each other but after this, we got closer. Of course, we loved each other and it only got stronger and we were merrier. It was something new for both of us and perhaps due to this, it felt like a new beginning. We have been together for so many years and we cared for each other, loved each other but yet there was something missing and this unseen-but-felt gap between us was bridged by BDSM. I still believe that my sexual relationship which was unwillingly getting damaged was brought back to life. And most importantly, however submissive I was but sexually I was empowered.

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London Escorts Sexual Tips To make A Woman Orgasm

My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and she has never had an orgasm. We have tried almost all positions known to man and every other technique we could think of. We even booked a consultation with a sex therapist and gynecologist and her body is just fine and does not have any abnormalities. At some point, this begun to erode my self-esteem and confidence because I would always wonder if I was not man enough for her. She would encourage me and point out that the problem was her and not me. But I still wanted her to enjoy the pleasure of an orgasm and my mind could not rest. It was not that she did not enjoy the sex itself, but that she did not get an orgasm out of it.

There were times when I felt that she was almost there, but the moment eluded her and it was just the same every other time. So how could I make my girlfriend orgasm after trying so hard for so long? That’s when I called London x city escorts and booked a consultation with one of their
escorts. When she arrived for our session, I told her about my troubles and she told me that I had certainly chosen the right place. We talked for a while and she asked me if I would like her to meet my girlfriend or if we should do this without her.

I chose to do it without my girlfriend’s knowledge so that I could surprise her on our 5th anniversary with an orgasm. This would be the ultimate gift to her and I truly believed it would change our relationship and take it to a whole new level. London escorts are well versed in the art of pleasure and satisfaction. She gave me a detailed lesson on the clitoris and G-spot and gave me a few tips on things to do and not to do to make my girlfriend have an orgasm. So I tried each and got astounding results.


Do not over try- My escort told me that the best way was for me to begin with a few relaxation techniques. I was to try a massage and use essential oils to soften the mood in a candlelit room. I tried this and my girlfriend had a soft look on her face as I massaged her body and whispered sweet things in her ear. I got to discover the power of touching could be stronger than penetration. Once the anxiety and foreboding were eliminated she was free to truly enjoy the emotions going through her body. This also built up the anticipation of what was to come and I enjoyed it as much as she did.

Get the juices flowing:

One thing London escorts taught me was that sex without lubrication could be painful. I had always been of the mindset that all sex was good. A woman requires more time to become aroused and that would usually take longer for her. The London escorts advised me to give my girlfriend a preview of what would come next but not undress. I did this by caressing her in both gentle and less gentle ways and the reaction I got was great. They also told me to that kissing was an important part of foreplay and that I should alternate between kissing her mouth and her neck to increase pleasure. Once I felt that her juices were flowing I could move on to the next part and undress her slowly; item by item of clothing.

More foreplay: 

Yes. I know it might seem like we are getting there too slow. But the London escorts assured me that slow was the way to go. I stroked her clitoris in the way the London escorts had taught me and had lube tube nearby in case things got dry. This also helped me grind on her clitoris and get her aroused to appoint we had never gotten to before. The London escorts had told me to rub and press on her magic spot in alternating motions. This built up more arousal and desire and her moans let me know I was on the right track.

The orgasm:

I tried all the tips the London escorts gave me and made sure I went slowly and I asked my girlfriend to let me know how it was coming along. Well, suffice to say there were no words to say as she reached her orgasm and clutched on my back like both our lives depended on it. While she reached her orgasm I kept the stimulation going for a few seconds then reduced and increased alternately. It became clear to me that the clitoris was an essential part of reaching an orgasm and I couldn’t have made my girlfriend reach her orgasm without the help of London escorts to
whom I am truly forever grateful.

The London escorts also mentioned that I might want to try a vibrator to increase arousal. I was skeptical about it but had a conversation with my girlfriend about buying her a vibrator and she was on board with that game plan. The London escorts helped me browse online for various vibrators and we tried each one with my girlfriend with very satisfactory results. The vibrators had a different setting for speed and pressure and we experimented with them all. Thanks to London escorts my girlfriend and I have found a new meaning to our relationship and we are always trying new things to spice it up and keep it exciting. We spent our 5th anniversary cooped up in a hotel room exploring the pleasure of orgasms and did not get out until the reality of our jobs awakened us. We still remember our first experience with fondness and naughtiness and go back to that hotel room every year to celebrate London escorts and the happiness they brought into our lives. I wonder what type of sexual tricks Heathrow escorts could teach me lol?

She Only Orgasms When I Give Her Oral.

Over the years since I first became sexually active (in my late teens), I have always thought and believed that any sex technique has the ability to lead someone to an orgasm: oral sex, penile-vaginal sex, sex toys…every sex technique out there. For me at least, this has always turned out to be true. However, this does not seem to hold true when it comes to this new hot girl from London escorts that I am seeing. She is twenty nine and I am a male aged thirty four. Before we started seeing each other, we were both sexually active and we had had sexual experiences with our past partners. She is everything I need and want in a woman. Moreover, we are totally compatible in bed but there is a very big issue on our sexual encounters that is really bothering me. And this issue is that no matter how much my D game is, she only orgasms when I give her oral. This is so frustrating to me because first of all, I am not the biggest fan of oral sex out there. Nothing else that I try to use to help make her climax seems to do the trick, but the minute I put my mouth in her lady parts and starts pleasuring her with my mouth, she does not last for even three minutes before an earth-shattering orgasm rocks her entire body.

Does this mean that I am possibly doing the whole love making thing the wrong way? Apart from when giving oral sex? No matter how much I would like to believe that I am not doing anything wrong, or underdoing anything, I just cannot help but think that I am not pleasuring her enough in all the other fields. Well, at least to the point of orgasm that is. What makes it so frustrating is that of all my past partners, this is the one that I feel most connected to. We are like two long souls who have finally met each other. The only thing straining our relationship is that we both have very different paths that lead us to orgasm. Full-on penetration for me, and oral sex on her side. I just wish that she is as adaptable as I am. You see, like I have stated above, I can get off petty much easily through any sex technique, though I have an affinity for full-on penetration. She, on the other side, can only orgasm when given oral.

From the first time since we got intimate until now, I have never forced her to do anything in bet that she does not want to. We have been through quite a lot and we do not keep secrets away from each other. Since I first noted that only oral can give her release, I have been trying to broach this subject to her unsuccessfully, just until recently when she noticed my increased frustrations. I decided to come clean and told her what was making me so angry and irritable. Although she tried to convince me that it is not my fault, but rather how her anatomy operates, I am still not convinced. Could it be that my manhood is too small? Too big? Could it be that I am too dominating in bed, not giving her a chance to express her likes and dislikes? Or am I too impatient, always jumping on her before her body fully responds and her womanhood comfortably lubricates? The truth be told, I am not guilty of any of this. I have been told by a good number of my past sexual partners that my manhood is just right. When it comes to patience, I have on more than enough times let her take the lead in bed, only doing what she commands me to do at her own right time. But has this served to help? A big no!

It is for reasons like this that we recently decided to visit a sex advice expert from escorts in London in our town. These are some of the things she suggested we do in order to make my woman orgasm through other sex forms apart from oral sex.

The use of sex toys.

The said sex advice expert told us that unlike men who instantly respond and react to sexual stimuli, women take longer. As such, men tend to climax faster than women do. She also told us that it is not uncommon for women to start responding to sex stimuli when the man is on the verge of climaxing, leaving her when her body has just started responding. This, according to her, is why most women do not orgasm during vaginal sex. She advised us to try sex toys such as dildos and vibrators to prepare her and make her fully aroused before sex. We have been using toys for over two months and guess what? Nothing. Another big frustration.

Role Play.

According to the expert, assuming different roles in bed is a sure way of guaranteeing orgasm, regardless of the type of sex you engage in. She advised me to let her be the dominant partner and I the submissive partner for a while and see how things were going to out for us. No matter how many times we do it, it just does not help. Though there was this time she had almost been “there”. It really puts a dent on my male pride that the only way I can make my woman orgasm is through oral sex.

Not to pressure her.

Just like my girlfriend, the expert insisted that “the end justifies the means”. She told me that I should be happy and contented that my girl is among the very few women who are lucky enough to orgasm, no matter how she achieves this. As much sense as this makes, I just cannot help but blame myself for failing to make her climax through every other sex technique out there.


I know that I am being unfair to myself, and that I am putting a lot of unnecessary pressure on my woman, but I just cannot seem to shake it off. I just wish there was another way to make her climax, because her climaxing only when I give her oral is really frustrating!